| Do you leave your manners in the countryside? |
| Friday, 17 June 2011 09:00 |
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I was fortunate recently to visit Snowdonia National Park, where one man, one partner, two kids and the dog camped for four days. Apart from the having the satisfaction of climbing the UK's second highest mountain (we are doing Ben Nevis later this year) I was struck by the phenomenon of countryside manners. I would bet a pound to a penny that 99% of the people on our campsite where town and city dwellers. I would also wager that they went through the same transformation that I did. Once esconced amongst the green hills, babbling brooks and cultured aromas of the rural idyll, your average "towny" suddenly beomes chatty, friendly and socially outgoing. They start saying "hi" and "hello" to complete strangers. What's more, they do it wth a smile on their face. Is it the fresh air (and why is fresh air good for you; why does it tire you out more; and why does it make you sleep better?) or is it the casting off of the workaday stoic mask that we all adorn ourselves with when walking our usually haunted streets? Let's face it; when was the last time you were walking down the High Street and greeted a complete stranger with overwhelming bonhomie? What would be your reaction if it happened to you? What would be your assumption of that person's character? Would you think them mad, underhand or drunk?Why is it that we change so much when in different environments and why are we so much more comfortable and willing to be open when out of our suits and smart two pieces? Imagine how much more business you could win if you were able to transfer those countryside manners to your next networking meeting or sales pitch. It's an interesting thought - have a great day!
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